Wives: A Quick Tip to Re-Establish a Healthy Marriage in Spite of Your Husband’s Porn Addiction!

Sadly, many Christian women are struggling with a deep dark secret in their marriage: Their husband’s addiction to pornography.

Nobody wants to talk about it, and many people don’t know how to deal with it. But there is a solution to the struggle you’re facing with your husband’s porn addiction.

If your goal is to re-establish a healthy marriage without your husband’s porn addiction, then this tip holds the keys you need to succeed if you want to avoid having to leave the marriage for good.

The Big Idea Behind This Tip Is: A healthy marriage begins with you, so give God the opportunity to deal with both you and your husband, based on your individual needs.

Maybe you’ve prayed for your husband to be set free from porn addiction, but it didn’t work. Maybe you’ve nagged him about it and he only becomes defensive about it.

I completely understand your pain, but I eventually discovered that the key is self-care.

What does this mean? It means: “Do your part to let God heal you and strengthen you as you learn and trust to believe Him to deliver your husband.”

Even though you may not watch pornography yourself, ultimately your husband’s addiction hurts you, your family, your relationship, and ultimately the way you interact with your husband. The reason why I say this is because I’ve been there. After a 20+ year porn addiction, my husband was finally set free.

Like you, I tried to change him and make him overcome it. I fussed about it, but to no avail.

But I realized I had to forgive my husband and myself. Forgiveness can be a challenge, but it is possible if you really want to grow as a wife and strengthen your marriage.