You’ve got a relationship, and he’s a good man. Now you’re concerned about how to keep him interested. Keeping a man interested requires keeping your relationship kicking.
You need to keep up just the same things that made him interested in you in the first place. When you first started dating, what were you like? Try to maintaining the same body shape and build that you had at the time. Invest in your personal appearance. Keep up the same attitudes and ways of acting that you showed in the beginning. Change over time is expected, but drastic change can kill a relationship.
Make sure you give him plenty of love. Don’t just show him you love him during sex, but make sure he knows it even when you’re not in the bedroom. Touching him occasionally and when not expected is a way to let him know you’re still interested in him and that you care.
Listen to him and take an interest in the things that matter to him. Being there for him when he’s excited about something or wants to talk is important. Make sure you really listen, with genuine interest. Even if he’s talking about something that may not be very important to you, it’s important to him.
Allowing a man to have his space is important too. If you’re too needy or think you have to spend every moment of every day together, you’re bound to make him want to pull away. Forcing yourself into every single aspect of a man’s life only serves to drive him away from you. A man wants to be needed, but he also needs his own space and some time away, so try to find your balance. Let him have his space.
Just like needing space, a man needs to know you like him for who he is. Don’t try to control him or force him to be someone he’s not. Love him for who he is, and don’t try to make him change. Thinking a man is there to be manipulated into the man you really want is ridiculous. He will want to move on if you don’t really appreciate him for being him.
Don’t just appreciate him, but let him know you do. Be sure to tell him the things you think are impressive about him. Let him know what you find attractive. Give him honest compliments on his strengths. Every man wants to feel good about himself, and paying a man compliments lets him do just that. He’ll also enjoy being with someone who obviously recognizes he’s a good man.
Don’t forget how important sex is in a relationship. Losing your sex drive or sex appeal is a killer. A strong relationship has to include real intimacy, and for most men, the easiest expression of real intimacy occurs in the bedroom.